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Alicia Otto's avatar

Thank you Sarah, I loved reading this and I agree that we need to find ways to have better conversations about life, love and the universe.

I do find it depends on where you are in Australia. Having grown up in regional Queensland, I was a reader and debater and I was privileged in a state school to have a great history and English teachers that encouraged debate and ideas. I then carried this through to study in Brisbane and found similar opportunities at university.

However, my family are mostly farmers and lovers of football who generally didn’t finish high school and as much as I love them, I struggle to connect with them because they talk about the weather or the footy scores or how many beers they drank last weekend or the latest mine that’s going to offer them a job or the latest way to scam money from the government because they feel ‘owed’. I go ‘home’ only a few times a year. I miss my mum who died in 2020 and would cut out articles out of the local paper to chat to me about (they also don’t have a local paper anymore, like many regional towns).

Since moving to Melbourne, I met my husband who is from Sydney and can chat about politics, equality, environment as well as sport. He supported me not changing my name when we got married which ‘shock horror’ is just not done where I am from. We also actively share the load of chores in our house and we talk about gender in sport and work.

I have great feminist and education chats with a friend at yoga, I chat politics and cities with colleagues and random people on the train or the farmers market. I meet and have tea and learn about refugees at Welcome dinner parties hosted by my mother in law.

I feel mentally stimulated by the real and nuanced discussion and conversation and it is a big part of why I love living here. (Maybe you live in the wrong part of the country Sarah?!) - Note most of the progressive women that got into federal politics were from Victoria...

I agree with the AFR article written a little while ago (October 2019), that as a country we are ‘young, rich, dumb and getting dumber’. It’s a paradox that we are the 8th richest nation and yet we have the export profile of Angola. But it’s more than just the economic impacts of being ‘dumb’, it’s also the social and environmental impacts, which are also significant but underplayed by this article.

I am thankful for the opportunities you provide to have these fearless and frank discussions are important for Australian society.

More of us need to wake up, put a snooze on our social media and read a real book, paper or article and form our own opinions about this country, before we suffer another brain drain and more people leave for brighter places. Australia has so much potential, and I feel with this latest election, we are on track to getting there...

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Liz B's avatar

I think it has something to do with Aust being an outdoor culture too (I noticed this in Europe - re the weather/winters there forcing folks indoors and into more intellectual pursuits). Aust white culture is also quite young, comp to Europe. I think also what passes for intellectual debate here is often focused around politics.

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