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Roderick West's avatar

Aren't they just a subset of all of us?

There is like a global wide shared insanity. We see what we are doing but we keep doing it somehow in denial of what is really happening. Our society, schools, parenting, workplaces, social media is all ruled by more. Get more wealth, higher paying jobs, owning more, growth, promotions, a new car, latest fashion, travel .... the list gos on and on. The most righteous of us fly to COP meetings and a multiplicity of events to argue against .... emissions .... with the obvious knowledge that we could equally do it online while secretly loving the whiskey and wine with comrades each evening to discuss and agree how terrible it all is.

Thank god for Trump and Theil and Musk and Vance and all the others. It's them. It's not me.

Let's go back to before when we could fight the good fight while shopping on Temu, researching my new investment property, a trip to explore the wilds of the alps and my new 'electric' car while mammals and tiny critters become no more.

We love to point the finger. "It's them" ... absolving our own role. We expect them to be leaders so we can scroll on reels and online shopping, posting and complaining about the state of the world.

Their addiction is my addiction. The first step has to be "they are me." Seeing with love and understanding without judgment. Seeing we are all part of this shared insanity. Now I see them and see me, now what?

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Madeleine Urion's avatar

I studied Rene Girard in theological college about 20 years ago, specifically his thinking about Christ and the idea of the scapegoat. It’s bizarre and horrifying seeing these ideas be employed as instruments of control and exploitation, currently. It makes me think that the tech bros en masse seem to fear spirituality, tenderness, and vulnerability (all conventionally feminine traits and Christ- like traits) and the idea that there could be a divine force dwelling within the world that can’t be quantified or controlled. If they are trying to exploit society’s vulnerabilities and use these vulnerabilities to consolidate their own power, they are in for some pretty hard lessons when they finally do have to face their own mortality and the depth of their own need in that moment.

Making a person or group a scapegoat (it sounds like they feel this way about women?) strengthens the scapegoat’s capacity for moral courage, self knowledge, and wisdom. And the oppressor makes themselves so desperately in need of love — so pathetically hungry for it but too terrified to submit to its healing power. It really all comes back to that idea of justice, love, forgiveness, and mercy, and taking responsibility for one’s self being inviolable parts of what it means to be human.

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