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Chusana Prasertkul's avatar

I have surprisingly been going through similar interactions (although nowhere near as respectful as yours since my friends aren’t considered centrist) with my circle of friends. I have noticed a pattern with guy friends especially. Usually ones that were considered “intelligent” within their social groups. Once they reach late 30s, they started picking up Mark Manson book (usually because they felt related to the cover), adopted worldview that’s very “us vs. them”, very antagonistic towards the changes happening in the world, started using the term “left”.

These people are very disillusioned by the world themselves. It’s too chaotic. Too many perspectives to consider. Too many “sensitive” people that they have to be considerate to. It’s too much for them so they started viewing the world very differently and narrowly. A self defence mechanism of some sort. A way that let them not take “accountability” of their own actions.

And this is the trend I’m seeing up close. I have two guys who contacted me out of the blue (they do so sporadically over the years we’ve known each other) and I’m just appalled by their communications and change in their mindsets. Maybe not a change, since it probably was there from the beginning but just quieter.

I felt I needed to be vocal about my stance too. I’m glad I’m subscribed to you - it doesn’t feel so lonely in Bangkok.

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Pez M's avatar

Like all dreamers, I mistook disenchantment for truth.

Jean-Paul Sartre (1964) ‘Écrire’

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